Let the competition end and the collaboration begin.
He's Too Nice!!
Why is it that so many women think it's OK to talk to their men any way they please? Time after time I've seen the same women who whine about not being able to find a good man, mistreat them when they get one. "Oh, he's too nice", "I like a little bit of bad boy in my man", "that's just how I am. A real man could take it".
NEWSFLASH - your sex isn't THAT good. Even if it was, eventually a real man will just leave. Period, paragraph, end of story. So why do so many of us continue to make the same mistakes only to find ourselves alone again and acting as if it's some kind of mystery why we are alone again?
What are your thoughts?
NEWSFLASH - your sex isn't THAT good. Even if it was, eventually a real man will just leave. Period, paragraph, end of story. So why do so many of us continue to make the same mistakes only to find ourselves alone again and acting as if it's some kind of mystery why we are alone again?
What are your thoughts?
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Permalink Reply by Martha Randolph Carr on -
I know exactly what you mean. I watched good friends and they were good women, talk down to some great men. Berate and belittle them for not getting the house rules exactly right. There was a lot of pettiness involved. They wanted to be right at all costs. I've done the flip side of that too. I've worked way too hard at times at not expressing an opinion in order to keep people around. However, while it worked well, I was keeping people in my orbit who didn't really belong there in the first place. We were all happier when I started speaking up and moving on.
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Permalink Reply by Deidre Logan on -
When we finally get to the point where we trust the truth - not just in us, but in others - we are finally truly liberated.
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